Budget and temptations

I have been the worst in the world at budgeting. I just have other talents. Well I am trying to save and not spend, but whenever I do I am tempted. Tempted to upgrade to a laptop. Tempted by wanting a sewing machine to sew things for Christmas. Tempted to redo my living room. Tempted by Halloween and our 11th Anniversary. Oh so tempted. I just need to be happy with what I have and find something I already have to fill my time and wants. I know I can do it. Words of encouragement would be much appreciated.